I'm a 38 yo guy. I like kids. They like me. I just don't want my own.
I called the family planning centre to get some information on a vasectomy.
They didn't have anything beyond surgery risks and fears.
Nothing about the social or psychological aspect.
I found a great librarian who pulled a bunch of articles from medical journals.
None of the research was relevant to me - it was either dads who had enough kids, or 22 yo guys who were deemed a bit damaged.
So my gp, and everyone else just shrugged and said make up your own mind.
Am I that unusual?